How to Help Someone Help Themselves

I’d advise a young person that if they are interested romantically in someone who seems to have no interest in them, their best move is to give up immediately and move on. You can’t want it enough for both of you. Far better to pick from among those who are at least semi interested and work on improving that relationship than to try to sell yourself to someone who doesn’t want anything to do with you. And if they are into you but are playing hard to get, then you moving on serves them right for playing mind games.

Note: This is easy advice to give when you’ve been happily out of the dating scene for over 25 years.

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